7 Attitudes that will Sabotage Your Marriage (and 7 to Replace them with) with Dave
Happy Valentine’s Day with Dave and Monica!
Happy Valentine’s Day! My husband Dave is with me as we celebrate our 28th Valentine’s Day together. In this episode we are going through a blog post that has been very popular for many years now: “7 Attitudes that Will Sabotage Your Marriage, and 7 to Replace them with.”

Dave and I are sharing from our own experience — as we know we’ve been guilty of all 7 bad attitudes…but we’ve also experienced God’s grace in helping us learn to replace them. Dave shares a reminder from 1 Corinthians 13, and I say a prayer for all of the marriages (as well as our kids’ current/future marriages) at the end. I hope this offers a bit of encouragement (even if via some tough love!)
NOTES AND LINKS:
Original Post: 7 Attitudes that Will Sabotage Your Marriage (and 7 to Replace them With.)
Philippians 2:5-8
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature[b] of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
2 Corinthians 13: 4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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